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Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#181

If you're in Kansas City, my company name is databasically and my first name is wes and I use a dot com. Shoot, if you're not in KC; email me and let me know how I can help.

On internet its easy to dumb people emotionally. You are a nice person, but instead of feeding fish it would be wise to have him learn how to fish.

People enjoy emotional blackmailing others.

Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#182

Do you need some real, immediate help, as in food and other necessities? Do not have millions to spare, but can help with some things. How can I contact you?

By looking yours and similar comments seems like this world is a nice place to hang. But dont trust at first afterall its internet and no one enjoys the feeling of being dumbed or robbed. His account is just new and got 500+ karma already, so I would suggest, help others but dont compromise your identity or give other chances to emotionally blackmail.

Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#183

I don't care if I get down voted. But if a person already has 3 kids and another on the way, why would you spend all your savings on a startup ? even if you run out of savings, why would you max out your credit ? There is something called calculated risk.

It's always easy to criticize from the outside. I don't know the OP's details enough to make a judgement like yours.

Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#184

My wife cried reading all of your comments. I guess we were looking for some sign that someone somewhere is pulling for us. During the first hour this post was up I hovered over the delete more than once. It doesn't seem right to bring an entire ecosystem of ambitious and wonderful people a story of failure. I guess I learned that hitting delete would be worse. Thank you from the 5.3 of us.

These stories should be required reading. To that end the community would benefit massively from you documenting it. Just as there are Journals of Negative results [1][2] so too should there be a journal of failed startups. Your detailing of what caused the failures could save thousands of man hours and potentially someone falling into the same traps. Goal #1 for you right now is to get your family in order and steel…

Completely agreed with your tactic of teaching how to fish instead of feeding him. But beaware internet is full with dumbasses, dont let anyone emotionally blackmail you. Best of luck to you!

I think he must have to write in order get clean with dirty minds like myself (not trusting him now, his account is just new and he got 500+ karma).

Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#186

Hey man, I've been there (two failed startups). Whatever you learned during that time should be valuable assets/skills in many startups. Hang in there. You gotta be there for your family.

I appreciate your kind words to the OP, but... is that really true? "Whatever you learned during that time should be valuable assets/skills in many startups" I can not imagine for one moment failing in a business, taking a job at a startup, and having the owner(s) or others say "well... you've tried this before and failed - what's your input on XYZ?" In fact, I essentially went through this years ago, and could not f…

It's not quite the same, but I encourage those around me to share their failures and screw ups. Particularly more junior staff. Often what they have done confuses senior staff and everyone can learn. A culture that encourages openness is particularly helpful when times are bad and things are heading south. Most aren't as open as me, and this isn't business failure (more like technical mistakes and poor decision making) but it seems relevant.

Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#187
They say there are dip and rise. Only people brace through the dip, shall rise. As dip is the time where many give up. That say, a personal opinion, it would be best to rectify the current situation and prepare for a come back. As a an old Chinese saying goes, 留得青山在,那怕没柴烧。It means, as long as you are here to stay, there will always be a chance.

I guess my point here is, do not give up, but rectify current situation first. I'm sure @zedshaw does provide good helps there.

Good Luck. Blessing from Malaysia.

Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#188
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pls put up a paypal acc and we can all chip in..

You are a generous, thanks for adding trust in the world. But please dont fall a victim of emotional-blackmailing. If you have some leads or contact share with him if you dont, I would not recommend you give him money, his account is too new here on HN and he 500+ karma already. So be safe and help people in need, no one like the feeling of being robbed. Thanks once again.

Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#189
Hey, I was ever in same situation like you, with no help. My dad would blame me. My mom cried out. I cannot come back home. Leading to my homelessness for several weeks.

Now, I live in San Jose. And Thanksgiving is closer, if you happen to live in San Jose, contact me kurei at my website: axcoto.com. I can give a hand, drive you around if you need, and a place to sleep for several days if need.

The company that I'm working for also is hiring PHP Dev. I can referred you to the CEO.

Re: Started a stupid company. Failed.

#190
post #188
post #142

pls put up a paypal acc and we can all chip in..

You are a generous, thanks for adding trust in the world. But please dont fall a victim of emotional-blackmailing. If you have some leads or contact share with him if you dont, I would not recommend you give him money, his account is too new here on HN and he 500+ karma already. So be safe and help people in need, no one like the feeling of being robbed. Thanks once again.

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