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#141

Please HN don't disappoint me with "slippery slope" and "it's too complicated" arguments. I want to continue to believe the level of discourse here is better than that. Its not just do-able ... doctor-assisted suicide is right.

You don't want a website of thousands of diverse people to "disappoint" you by disagreeing with you on a complex issue?

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#142

Physician assisted suicide is a super slippery slope. I'm stunned when thinking people advocate.

It is something that should be monitored and have strict conditions on the age of the patient, maladies suffered, level of consciousness, and time spent attempting to cure.

That said, it should be weighed the morality of keeping a thousand people alive to die slowly and painfully so that one person might not get put down before their time.

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#143

Since this concerns the U.S. government, I'll say that the vendetta against euthanasia and doctor-assisted suicide by the Christian right is puzzling. The Bible has a very ambivalent view on suicide (as with any other topic), the tale of Samson being a prime example. The main argument against suicide comes from Corinthians, but it is starkly contradicted by other passages. A person who is slowly succumbing, immobile,…

I realize it's our own doing, but there is nothing 'right' (or 'left') about Christianity. That being said... your post is completely accurate (in my experience), and speaking as a Christian, that infuriates me (likely even more than it does you...)

The phrase "Christian right" identifies a subset of Christians; it does not imply anything more.

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#144
post #90

I don't wish to minimise his situation but it seems like he considers his father's suffering not quite as bad as his own suffering were he just to do the killing himself and take the jail sentence.

Scott wants what he believes his father wants (since his father can no longer make decisions Scott must decide in a way he believes his father would want him to decide for him) and is best for his father. To kill his own father and risk prison (not to mention the devastation it would cause to Scott's immediate family) is simply not an option.

What kind of man would want his own son to risk life in prison in order to end their own suffering?

Re: I Hope My Father Dies Soon

#145

Since this concerns the U.S. government, I'll say that the vendetta against euthanasia and doctor-assisted suicide by the Christian right is puzzling. The Bible has a very ambivalent view on suicide (as with any other topic), the tale of Samson being a prime example. The main argument against suicide comes from Corinthians, but it is starkly contradicted by other passages. A person who is slowly succumbing, immobile,…

You talk a lot about the "christian right", and I would agree with you on this particular case, but the "socialist left" is far more intrusive in our lives than the "christian right" is. Get the government out our lives and stop pretending that we need the government to be our nanny.

> the "socialist left" is far more intrusive in our lives

You’re giving the movement way too much credit if you believe the “socialist left” has any clout in the US. I also hope you don’t think the Obama administration is socialist or leftist, as in reality it doesn’t even pass for social-democrat.

In the US, the most circulated newspaper by far is the Wall Street Journal and the most watched news channel is FOX News. Both are owned by News Corporation (the Murdoch family) and they are far from socialist.

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#146
post #13

The Singularity is about 30 years out, or so we're led to believe. It takes about 10 years and billions of dollars to create a new drug, and that time and cost is not decreasing. Stories like this are a grim reminder of how much work we really must do. "Fixing" the human body is a really hard problem.

What does "The Singularity" have to do with this? (serious question, I've never heard of this).

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#147

Sorry, but I am getting really tired of this form of discourse. A million interests prevent you from doing a million things every day, but apparently it's only objectionable and worth remarking about when it's the government. And it's not even like I disagree with him -- yes we should allow assisted suicide. But boy oh boy is it hard not to notice that he wastes no time thinking about why things are this way, or whic…

If there wasn't a law against doctor assisted suicide, he'd be able to let his father die as he chooses. The only entity that can make and enforce laws is government. This makes government distinct from all other entities . Therefore, the government deserves the blame.

And yet, I live under a government, one that like the US government has been democratically elected, which does allow assisted suicide.

So maybe "government" isn't the problem. The people are.

But of course it is way scarier to imagine that it's not the government that is making your father suffer, but your friends, family, neighbors and coworkers.

Because that would really be too uncomfortable.

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#148
i am wondering if i am the only person who read this, who felt the piece was a very strange way to consecrate his father's passing. "i wish i could have put him down like a cat, and if you disagree with me, i hope you die a horrible death." there is a good case for euthanasia, and there is a case against it, it just seems inappropriate to approach a dialogue with this piece as a starting point. in the end, i'm sorry he lost his father in a painful and ugly way and felt captive to a hospital. the end of life situations in my family were also pretty gnarly but involved hospice care. i'd love to know the circumstances here, and how the situation could have been improved. but you'll never win over your opponents starting from a place like this.

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#149
post #133
post #128

Earlier quoted context omitted.

You're oversimplifying. There were a lot of people on both sides who had reasons other than religion.

I'm folding "crass political appeal to the religious rubes" under religion for that particular case. EDIT: Her parents obviously had different motivations than religion. The 10,000,000 politicians and talking heads? Either religion or political exploitation related to religion.

Her husband was already in a relationship with another woman, who he wished to marry. His memory was the only source for her supposed wishes, and he was the one pushing to end her life. You don't have to be a religious fanatic to see a problem here.

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#150

Sorry, but I am getting really tired of this form of discourse. A million interests prevent you from doing a million things every day, but apparently it's only objectionable and worth remarking about when it's the government. And it's not even like I disagree with him -- yes we should allow assisted suicide. But boy oh boy is it hard not to notice that he wastes no time thinking about why things are this way, or whic…

If there wasn't a law against doctor assisted suicide, he'd be able to let his father die as he chooses. The only entity that can make and enforce laws is government. This makes government distinct from all other entities . Therefore, the government deserves the blame.

This is incredibly shallow thinking. The government in the U.S. is an elected body. Elections have consequences. This is one of them. You can blame the individual politicians and want to see them die a painful death since it might be emotionally satisfying for you, but the reason the politicians are there in the first place and the reason they pull the lever the way they do has a little to do with their own personal viewpoints and more to do with the people who put them there.
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