At some point can't she say "so there's a picture of my left tit on the net, and?" Also I don't understand why people like Moore haven't been sued into the ground for profiting from copyright violation. (edit: I mean other than the whole upfront cost aspect, but given how frickin' insane copyright penalties are, you would think some or other lawyer would take it on a no-win no-fee basis.)
It seems baffling to me that her partner would consider leaving her, but the article says it was a concern.
Or sometimes people at vulnerable points in their lives are outed. Or not even outed, just plain blackmailed.
It's very easy to say "just shrug it off", but the numbers of people completing suicide (I've found 3 names in a very quick web search) shows that it's not something that people can just get over.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/23724703