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Re: See Your Folks

#41

I'm depressed I have to see them that many more times....

I'm glad there's at least one person who doesn't immediately get all profound over the oft-trotted theme of 'spend time with the loved ones'. I'm also glad it isn't everyone; but I am glad there is one.

The rest of you: yes, it's also very nice that you're all nice, soft humans with good families.

Re: See Your Folks

#42

Damn, my dad had a stroke on Saturday night. Thankfully he got very prompt and first class medical treatment (Thanks NHS. Socialised medicine FTW) so the damage is fortunately very limited. I'm actually on my way to the hospital to see him now. This is a great reminder to pick up the phone and tell your folks or anyone that matters to you that you love them. Everyone reading this should do that now if they can. You n…

I agree. I was in the same situation one year ago with my father. Unfortunately, he passed away 3 weeks ago for lung cancer...

If you can, you should say to the people you care about how much you love them. Time is limited, memories stay forever.

Re: See Your Folks

#43

This is terrible... it makes it horrible for people in difficult situations.

Change your situation. We luckily live in an age of jet planes and video phones. It has never been easier to stay connected to people.

Re: See Your Folks

#44

It made me sad because it makes me realize I have no control over the fact that they are growing old. Instead, what would be nice is if provided information such as: ask your father to go for a prostrate exam, ask your mother to run these other tests, and so on - based on the country, age and perhaps race data (which is not collected right now). The website is nice and intuitive.

Makes me sad because I don't have much control over living in the same city as them. I have a theory that much of the high rates of depression and unhappiness in the US can be attributed to the large size of the country combined with our mobility within it. Childhood friends always move far away, families separate, your schoolmates drift away. You need 2-5 hour flights to see anyone. Take for example a Brit or a Germ…

"Take for example a Brit or a German. The people you grow up with and your families might move to another city, but they are always just a reasonable train ride or drive away."

Not that reasonable.

I'm a Brit, living in Scotland. Many, many of my friends live either 5-and-a-bit hours' train ride away (London) or 7-8 hours by train or car away (Bristol).

Re: See Your Folks

#45
Inspiring. I actually have a shelved project that is somewhat similar but for marriage + life, etc.

I think I will continue that now!

Re: See Your Folks

#46
Effective site, but I hope the people who found it depressing reconsider their response.

The site didn't tell you anything you didn't already know, it only clarified it.

Instead of denying information to keep yourself happy, why not use the information? My 69-year-old mother remarked earlier this year that if she didn't get around to some of her life goals soon she wouldn't be able to.

Did she say that out of depression? No, to live the life she wanted even more. She celebrated her 70th birthday bicycle-touring a wine region in France with my step-father, riding something like one hundred kilometers a day.

We can all do the same in our ways. In my opinion, awareness trumps denial.

Re: See Your Folks

#47
Why is 0 not a valid input? I mean, I know it makes it somewhat pointless to even fill in if one never sees ones parents, but either way, 0 is a valid, if sad, answer.

Re: See Your Folks

#48

This is terrible... it makes it horrible for people in difficult situations.

Change your situation. We luckily live in an age of jet planes and video phones. It has never been easier to stay connected to people.

We also live in an age of visas, rogue governments holding your (expir{ing|ed}) passport for ransom for stupid things like compulsory military service. Not everybody can change that part of the situation.
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