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Re: See Your Folks

#31

It made me sad because it makes me realize I have no control over the fact that they are growing old. Instead, what would be nice is if provided information such as: ask your father to go for a prostrate exam, ask your mother to run these other tests, and so on - based on the country, age and perhaps race data (which is not collected right now). The website is nice and intuitive.

That is a high-quality comment. You explained your reaction and offered a solution to the problem you see in it.

Re: See Your Folks

#33

It made me sad because it makes me realize I have no control over the fact that they are growing old. Instead, what would be nice is if provided information such as: ask your father to go for a prostrate exam, ask your mother to run these other tests, and so on - based on the country, age and perhaps race data (which is not collected right now). The website is nice and intuitive.

Makes me sad because I don't have much control over living in the same city as them.

I have a theory that much of the high rates of depression and unhappiness in the US can be attributed to the large size of the country combined with our mobility within it. Childhood friends always move far away, families separate, your schoolmates drift away. You need 2-5 hour flights to see anyone. Take for example a Brit or a German. The people you grow up with and your families might move to another city, but they are always just a reasonable train ride or drive away. It's quite isolating when you realize everyone you're close with is spread across a continent.

Re: See Your Folks

#35

This is great, regardless of whether the math is correct. I don’t share much on Facebook, but this, this I shared. It may seem sappy to some, but I find it to be a community service. My situation: I’m 33 years old and I live in the same city as my parents do. My mom is 65 years old, my dad is 69 years old. I visit my parents about once a week. According to this test, I can expect to see my parents another 700 times b…

I'm 32 and live in a different province from my family and I only see them for a week or so a year (this past year I got to see them three times :). Seeing 28.5 show up on there was painful.

I hope we both get to surpass these numbers :)

Re: See Your Folks

#37
I have to put a number greater then 0... That number (and the statistics they are likely collecting) should even be lower.

Re: See Your Folks

#39

I am not sure I appreciate this kind of thing but it is interesting nevertheless. My folks have lived 4.5 years beyond the expected life expectancy for my country! By the way, the app needs to handle this case gracefully: I am a foreigner in the US so I see my folks less than once a year. I tried putting in 1/3 but looks like the lowest number it can handle is 1.

I tried .5 (say if you visit once in 2 years )and it worked.
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