>one performance issue that impacted us was MongoDB’s database-level write lock. People give MSSQL shit for having row-level locks (if you don't use their MVCC option), yet how is it that Mongo runs with a database-wide option and people don't immediately laugh and walk away? Is the hype so powerful that people just shrug about a huge mutex?
The problems people encounter with SQL performance generally (or at least also) are on the read side where query optimization can become a pretty hard problem. Basically, the short answer is people are using SQL and noSQL very differently (as one would expect). cue: someone telling me SQL query optimization is easy and people are just idiots.
Personally, I would much rather perform a complex query in SQL than NoSQL. The base-line is likely to be not-terrible, which may be good enough for single-use queries. Optimization is much easier (IMHO) - SQL is a DSL for querying and indexing. Compared to having to write code to do that (which seems to be the primary NoSQL approach), the DSL approach seems much more efficient. SQL isn't perfect, but it beats no-DSL-support or another DSL that is even worse than SQL :-)