Earlier quoted context omitted.
So in the other post, you said you inadverdently realized you had a second photo of the target (which presumably contained key identifying info)...so, are you saying here that that second photo didn't come from investigating the event that she was at (i.e., if it had a meetup/lanyrd page, looking at all the attendee photos and seeing what looked like her?)
The second photo that we later realized we had was one a teammate had taken himself and didn't have anyone else in it. I think it was doable with just 1 photo, and I'm not ready to share with Justin how the 2nd photo helped. :)
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Re: Help me figure out how I lost this bet to an engineer
#172jbg331 - while we wait for people to ferret out the right answer, can you tell us how the woman in question has responded to the "game"? Genuinely curious.
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#173Earlier quoted context omitted.
Or, have some faith in humanity, considering: - This was just a fun bet between friends. Justin really didn't think it could be done and I wanted to show him how a little information goes a long way online. - Justin treated this girl well and she even knew about this bet. - "Look up online" != Stalking - None of the discovered information has been posted publicly online. This isn't even her photo.
> - None of her information has been posted online. You are totally lying. I just saw your other comment on this where you admitted you posted her pic in a Facebook ad. I will quote: >This is the closest I've heard to one of the ideas that we expected to work, so I'll share. >- Create an ad on Facebook with her picture. >- Target people that went to her high school within 4 years of the range of years we thought she…
"stalk [verb]: to follow, watch, and bother (someone) constantly in a way that is frightening, dangerous, etc."
-- merriam-webster
This very much was not the case.
If it makes you feel better, the ad was also taken down very quickly.
Re: Help me figure out how I lost this bet to an engineer
#174How are you surprised that they did it when they knew what high school she went to? Two possibilities: Option 1: Step 1) Find copies of yearbooks going back a few years, 2) find her face in the yearbook. Option 2: Step 1) Search facebook for people who went to the same high school as she did in the probable time frame. 2) Look for her in that set, or in the set of friends that the people who matched the search have.…
They knew what high school because it was a slip up. If you knew these guys, they aren't the kind who would just sit there and look at pictures. They had some software running. FYI, I am a sales guy...not an engineer
That's why I said "Feel free to sprinkle in face detection on the yearbook/facebook photos to make it more engineer-ey."
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#175Earlier quoted context omitted.
So in the other post, you said you inadverdently realized you had a second photo of the target (which presumably contained key identifying info)...so, are you saying here that that second photo didn't come from investigating the event that she was at (i.e., if it had a meetup/lanyrd page, looking at all the attendee photos and seeing what looked like her?)
The second photo that we later realized we had was one a teammate had taken himself and didn't have anyone else in it. I think it was doable with just 1 photo, and I'm not ready to share with Justin how the 2nd photo helped. :)
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#176Earlier quoted context omitted.
This is the closest I've heard to one of the ideas that we expected to work, so I'll share. - Create an ad on Facebook with her picture. - Target people that went to her high school within 4 years of the range of years we thought she graduated within. Was only a few hundred people so the cost of running the ad would likely only be a few bucks. - The ad copy / landing page just needed to be convincing that we weren't…
she applied for work with your company, and you had her photo and info from the cv?
Re: Help me figure out how I lost this bet to an engineer
#177jbg331 - while we wait for people to ferret out the right answer, can you tell us how the woman in question has responded to the "game"? Genuinely curious.
Surpringly well. I told her about the bet and she took everything in stride. She actually laughed when I told her. Shes a pretty awesome girl
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#178The bet is fine but writing a blog post about it on your company blog is in bad taste in my opinion.
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#179Earlier quoted context omitted.
> - None of her information has been posted online. You are totally lying. I just saw your other comment on this where you admitted you posted her pic in a Facebook ad. I will quote: >This is the closest I've heard to one of the ideas that we expected to work, so I'll share. >- Create an ad on Facebook with her picture. >- Target people that went to her high school within 4 years of the range of years we thought she…
The ad was honest and even described the bet. "stalk [verb]: to follow, watch, and bother (someone) constantly in a way that is frightening, dangerous, etc." -- merriam-webster This very much was not the case. If it makes you feel better, the ad was also taken down very quickly.
This would be much more meaningful if you hadn't already stated that you took it down because you already got the information you wanted.
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#180Earlier quoted context omitted.
> - None of her information has been posted online. You are totally lying. I just saw your other comment on this where you admitted you posted her pic in a Facebook ad. I will quote: >This is the closest I've heard to one of the ideas that we expected to work, so I'll share. >- Create an ad on Facebook with her picture. >- Target people that went to her high school within 4 years of the range of years we thought she…
The ad was honest and even described the bet. "stalk [verb]: to follow, watch, and bother (someone) constantly in a way that is frightening, dangerous, etc." -- merriam-webster This very much was not the case. If it makes you feel better, the ad was also taken down very quickly.
Yeah, no one would ever possibly be creeped out by that.
You think it's ok because you have good intentions. Guess what? So does every other creep. It's not up to you to decide whether your actions are frightening. You took a bet that you could stalk (message all her classmates!) and dox (post her picture online!) a girl without her permission and without even the slightest self-awareness that it's invasive behavior. And then you tried to lie about key details.
You, sir, are exactly the kind of male-privileged "brogrammer" that is giving this industry a bad name these days.