Completely agree. One thing that I figured out rather quickly is that lispers really want to teach and explain things, but being lazy programmers, they don't bother holding your hand, so if you are willing to do your homework, you'll have an amazing time with lisp.
Lets take a look at a few patterns I've noticed:
* Newbie posts some snippet and asks for review, the snippet is C++ code written in CL, lisper tells him it sucks, newbie explains that he has a lot of C++ experience and this is how his brain works. Lispers(now plural) explain to him that lisp must be learned with a beginners mind and he must forget C++ temporarily in order to learn it properly. Newbie gets insulted for some reason and begins arguing.
* newbie asks question about "generic lisp", lispers explain that the question makes no sense, and give his an answer about common lisp. Newbie asks question again emphasizing that he isn't interested in Common Lisp but in lisp in general, lispers tell him to read the topic, #lisp is about Common Lisp. Newbie argues that #lisp should be about generic lisp, and #commonlisp or whatever should be about CL, argument goes nowhere of course.
* newbie asks question and posts snippet. The code is obviously written by somebody with exactly 1 hour of lisp experience(parens are mismatched and aligned wrong, indentation is horrible, not to mention the obvious hacks). lispers explain that lisp is best learned patiently and not through the "learn x in y minutes" way, and that he should read Practical Common Lisp. Newbie gets insulted he was told to RTFM instead of getting an actual answer to his "wrong" question(at least in the eyes of us lispers).
* newbie asks about scheme/emacs and refuses to accept that #lisp isn't about those languages, see pattern #2.
* newbie asks scheme vs CL vs clojure vs haskell vs python vs ... question. Gets surprised when lispers unapologetically proclaim CL the best language ever and everything else is shit. Lispers do not hide their bias. Newbie then begins to argue about his favorite language and why it is better than lisp. Sometimes it's clojure, sometimes its scheme, or it could be whatever.
* (my favorite, and probably most frequent) Newbie asks what is lisp good for, gets pissed off when we tell him we program computers with it :)
Many other such questions include:
Q: "why isn't lisp popular" A: You haven't converted enough people to it :)
Q: "Why does lisp have so few libraries" A: You haven't written enough libraries yet :)
Q: "Why isn't there a library for X" A: Nobody needed it, if you do, write it and push it to github :)
Q: "Why doesn't library X do Y" A: patches welcome.
Notice a pattern :)
All of these cases or variations of them have happened many times since I started to frequent #lisp, often times the word "fags" or "cunts" get used, and not by lispers.