Here's another way to understand it. The difficultly: Despite the propagation delay, gravity always points to where the object should be, instead of where it was when the gravity was "emitted". The explanation: Just like the object itself is moving, the gravitational field (or electric/magnetic field) is ALSO moving! It moves at exactly the same speed, and in the same direction as the object which created it. It's "d…
> The difficultly: Despite the propagation delay, gravity always points to where the object should be, instead of where it was when the gravity was "emitted". [citation needed] My understanding is that it points to where the object was, and that the change propagates at the speed of light as gravitational waves.
Instead as the object moves, the gravitational field it emits also moves, so you end up feeling the gravity where you would expect it to be if the field transmitted instantly.
It's when the object emitting the field changes direction that things become interesting.