A few points of contention... First, it doesn't seem like TFA is opposed to JS, as the linkbait title would seem, but the overhead of some sites/libraries.
I think that jQuery is probably a bit larger than it may need to be. Most of this is to work around edge cases or missing features in supported browsers. I think that the biggest issue may well be cost(s), and trust. It would be entirely possible to have a jQuery-like framework that would bring in only those shims as needed as part of loading from a central source. Unfortunately, that has costs in terms of both maintenance as well as deployment/cdn. It's probably not worth it.
Second, you are getting a lot of unused features with most frameworks (like jQuery), however this can be mitigated by using a common CDN, where caching helps a lot. Using the google, or ms cdn for jquery is a no brainer for a public facing application. I think that jQuery is too useful to just be replaced with one-off components.
As to jQueryUI, when you compare what it does with other toolkits, it's actually very impressive. Just look at the load size for the JS for Bootstrap for example... and bootstrap doesn't do all that jQueryUI does.
More and more frameworks have checkbox build options to give more fine grained builds specific to your needs with less overhead. Also, as pointed out in a few slides, you can load certain scripts and features as an on demand or post-load approach.
For example ALL my scripts tend to be at the bottom before the closing body tag (unless it's a single page application). Even then, the analytic scripts are last... imho the page being served to the user is the most important thing... it should be mostly functional without JS. And in terms of scripts, in the larger sense analytics are pretty low pecking order... when you have 10k users an hour, missing 2-3 analytics loads is no big deal.