As a youth, I was only able to sit still by focusing on sitting still. If I was paying attention to the teacher, I was fidgeting, and would be told to pay attention...
Stop Penalizing Boys for Not Being Able to Sit Still at School
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#12The decision to home educate our 4 children is hands down the best decision we've ever made. Highly recommend it, if you are able to pull it off logistically. Very rewarding experience so far.
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#13Yeah , stop trying to teach kids discipline, especially when there is none at home ...
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#14The frustrating part for teachers was that I typically scored higher on exams than my peers, including standardized tests. They then saw my scores and consistently lectured me about how if I just _applied_ myself I'd be doing so much better.
I always treated exams as a challenge I sit here for 1, 2 hours at a time and try and score as high as possible.
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#15Earlier quoted context omitted.
They gave me silly putty to harness my fidgeting. I soon discovered silly putty can be made into a bouncy ball, that I could use to distract everyone.
My son's classroom has employed smaller versions of exercise balls to keep some of the kids focused (including my own). It's interesting to observe. The kids are fidgety and restless while sitting, but when you sit them on one of these the subconscious motor control going on seems to quell the foreground restlessness.
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#16My personal goal is to figure out how to make enough money to keep my children out of the insanity of public schools.
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#18i remember i always got shitty 'citizenship' grades because i wanted to talk to my classmates all the time. talking - what a terrible thing for a child to do.
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#19At least one of my three boys would have an incredibly hard time with this. He's definitely "aspie" in a lot of respects. The decision to home educate our 4 children is hands down the best decision we've ever made. Highly recommend it, if you are able to pull it off logistically. Very rewarding experience so far.