"I know you have all these rules that try to make packages consistent so sysadmins don't have to give any extra thought to each individual one, but I'm a special snowflake that you should treat differently." I care about having a system with hundreds or thousands of packages installed on it that all work consistently. Linux is not OS X, and packages are not .dmg files; I want your package using the system version of…
Very few people understand the importance, and benefits, when they have never seen anything other than .msi[1], .dmg, or worse, .zip.
[1]: Lets just pretend for a minute that Windows software only comes as plain MSI.. all the various .exe's which splatter stuff all over the disk simply doesn't exist.