I thought the most interesting thing in the stack overflow was the complete lack of systems analysis. 99% of people who need encryption already have it, and they probably use RSA or at least a non-EC system. So almost by definition you're talking about converting an entire system, not just linking in a new library or CSS file... The question is really, "Why aren't people replacing their entire SSL cert system and all…
No, the question is really "EC has these benefits (lower CPU and memory usage) - why aren't these benefits attractive enough for someone to start experimenting with it?" - with those someones probably being companies like Google, Facebook, Dropbox etc that have very substantial amounts of SSL traffic and could surely benefit from saving on memory and CPU.