Another point would be to save . When you're young, it's easy to spend and not save. However, it's important to get into a disciplined habit of saving - don't depend on someone else to force you to save. Also, while it's financially advantageous to have a two-income family, once you have kids priorities might change. The better choice may be to have a parent at home with the kid(s) instead of utilizing day-care. You'…
If substantial inflation is on the way, the winning play is not to save but take on debt.
Things Your Commencement Speaker Won't Tell You
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#62Earlier quoted context omitted.
I retract that then, but I honestly think that anti-intellectualism is a serious and disturbing problem in the tech community. It's like these people want to take us to a dark age of not really understanding anything beyond a superficial level.
There is a huge difference between being anti-intellectual, and anti-institutional.
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#63Earlier quoted context omitted.
Saving can include investments. Real-estate is a good one.
Real estate is a horrible investment. Houses appreciate at a much, much lower rate than index funds.
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#64I can't believe that five hours after this interesting essay was posted, none of the comments have yet mentioned Paul Graham's essay (also a commencement speech never heard at an actual graduation) "What You'll Wish You'd Known" (January 2005). http://paulgraham.com/hs.html I like much of the advice of that essay, which is the second Paul Graham essay local friends recommended that I read. I have all my children read…
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#65The best and most honest commencement speech I've ever listened to was David Foster Wallace's to the Kenyon College graduating class of 2005 that has since been published as a short book. It's called "This is Water." There's a heavy liberal arts slant, but it's a great speech. http://vimeo.com/57350121 (audio)
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#66Hard for this to work for both spouses, I guess....
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#67If you want to get laid, go to college. If you want an education, go to the library. Frank Zappa
Zappa obviously didn't know about engineering school ;)
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#68Interesting read. If I was asked to give a commencement speech (which never will be, by the way), I'd cover only three points. -Make connections to others My boy scout leader used to say, "Humans are herd animals." Even if you're an introvert and socializing sounds like the worst torture imaginable, at least invite a friend over to watch a movie once a week or sign up for the company bowling league. The research says…
As an added bonus, Volunteering makes you feel a lot better :) http://www.livescience.com/4443-study-good-feel-good.html (first link I found, plenty of other studies)
At least it seems to me that people like me who don't care about strangers would get very little out if volunteering.
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#69Interesting read. If I was asked to give a commencement speech (which never will be, by the way), I'd cover only three points. -Make connections to others My boy scout leader used to say, "Humans are herd animals." Even if you're an introvert and socializing sounds like the worst torture imaginable, at least invite a friend over to watch a movie once a week or sign up for the company bowling league. The research says…
As for impressing a date, who really wants to date a doormat.
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#70When I was asked to make this address I wondered what I had to say to you boys who are graduating. And I think I have one thing to say. If you wish to be useful, never take a course that will silence you. Refuse to learn anything that implies collusion, whether it be a clerkship or a curacy, a legal fee or a post in a university. Retain the power of speech no matter what other power you may lose. If you can take this course, and in so far as you take it, you will bless this country. In so far as you depart from this course, you become dampers, mutes, and hooded executioners.
As a practical matter, a mere failure to speak out upon occassions where no statement is asked or expect from you, and when the utterance of an uncalled for suspicion is odious, will often hold you to a concurrence in palpable iniquity. Try to raise a voice that will be heard from here to Albany and watch what comes forward to shut off the sound. It is not a German sergeant, nor a Russian officer of the precinct. It is a note from a friend of your father's, offering you a place at his office. This is your warning from the secret police. Why, if you any of young gentleman have a mind to make himself heard a mile off, you must make a bonfire of your reputations, and a close enemy of most men who would wish you well.
I have seen ten years of young men who rush out into the world with their messages, and when they find how deaf the world is, they think they must save their strength and wait. They believe that after a while they will be able to get up on some little eminence from which they can make themselves heard. "In a few years," reasons one of them, "I shall have gained a standing, and then I shall use my powers for good." Next year comes and with it a strange discovery. The man has lost his horizon of thought, his ambition has evaporated; he has nothing to say. I give you this one rule of conduct. Do what you will, but speak out always. Be shunned, be hated, be ridiculed, be scared, be in doubt, but don't be gagged. The time of trial is always. Now is the appointed time.