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I could imagine a lot of things. I'm just trying to point out that you can't just absolve individuals from being responsible for the outcomes of their decisions. And that's not the same thing as saying "The victim was dumb, they got what they had coming to them".
Bad judgement on one individual doesn't justify bad actions of another individual. A woman might choose to wear clothes that make her look sexy. But that doesn't justify a guy raping her. I agree that people act dumb. But that doesn't justify predatory behaviour.
Nobody said it did, and that example is nothing like what we're talking about here.