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Forking and Dongle Jokes Don't Belong At Tech Conferences

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Re: Forking and Dongle Jokes Don't Belong At Tech Conferences

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"What many of you don’t know is that wasn’t the first time that day I had to address this issue around harassment and gender."

A few guys making idiotic jokes amongst themselves about forking and dongle size is now considered harassment? I can understand they were probably being annoying, but I'm having trouble seeing this as harassment.

Re: Forking and Dongle Jokes Don't Belong At Tech Conferences

#3
I guess the big factor here would be if they were purposely saying those comments in order to be assholes.

Friends do make silly jokes with each other, right?

Surely the person could have just said something like "Guys, not funny, because..." instead of making it a huge public shaming in the Internet Court of Law.

Re: Forking and Dongle Jokes Don't Belong At Tech Conferences

#4

"What many of you don’t know is that wasn’t the first time that day I had to address this issue around harassment and gender." A few guys making idiotic jokes amongst themselves about forking and dongle size is now considered harassment? I can understand they were probably being annoying, but I'm having trouble seeing this as harassment.

The pycon people are aiming to build a conference where women don't have to deal with this stuff at all. It's a lofty goal, and I appreciate them for setting a high standard.

Excusing little comments creates a culture where women have to put up with innuendo throughout the conference. I saw these people removed from the room, and it was done quite appropriately. (I did not hear anything directly.)

Re: Forking and Dongle Jokes Don't Belong At Tech Conferences

#6
I am missing something here. I get that someone could be offended by these comments, but what does it have to do with being a woman? I know females who would giggle at such jokes and males who would feel uncomfortable.

I feel like the person here being the most sexist is the author, for insinuating that there's something inherent in her gender that makes "forking" jokes offensive to her. I would welcome an explanation of what I'm not seeing.

Re: Forking and Dongle Jokes Don't Belong At Tech Conferences

#7
Given that it would be trivial to turn around and ask them not to offend, I fail to see the benefit in publicly going after these guys after the fact.

Mob justice doesn't allow the other party the ability to alter their behaviour (we don't know if asking would have worked) nor does it allow the other party to tell their side of the story.

In addition, it has a habit of causing both sides to dig their heels in and often causes more trouble.

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