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You seem to be saying to contradictory things: "Equity is worthless, never work for equity, always demand cash up front." "Those darn investors and founders keep all the equity for themselves and get rich off your back!" You can't have it both ways. Either the equity is worthless or it isn't. Are the investors, who get no salary and only equity, even bigger suckers than the employees? What about the founders who usua…
There's equity, and then there's "equity." For example, a well-funded late stage startup recently offered me a salary that was $35k/year below the market rate, plus X hundred thousand stock options. These came with no strike price, and their grant was subject to final board approval after hiring. When I asked how I might possibly valuate these at anything other than zero dollars, they told me that this was just a sta…
Similarly, they can't specify the strike price because for legal reasons the strike price is set when the options are issued.
Nonetheless, options of this kind are worth a potentially huge amount of money. X00,000s of google shares, given to you subject to board approval and with an unknown strike price, would have been fabulously valuable.
However, perfectly legitimate questions:
How many outstanding shares of stock do you have on a fully-diluted basis? X00,000s of stock options is meaningless, only percentages matter. You should always ask this question.
What was the last 409a valuation for common stock? When did you get your last 409a valuation? This will determine the strike price your options get, assuming that their 409a valuation is less than a year old.
So actually, their answers were perfectly legitimate. $35k under market is quite a bit, though depending on the percentage of the company you were getting it might be fair.