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Re: Tell HN: I think I'm quitting my job today

#51

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Oh, I definitely am not quitting before having something in writing! They're suppose to get it to me by lunch today.

Another alternative is to ask for a unpaid leave of absence. That will give them time to reconsider and you time to think and do .

If he does this, there's a chance of him getting fired. It doesn't send a good signal.

Re: Tell HN: I think I'm quitting my job today

#52
I find that many people in your situation make this all or nothing decision when it doesn't have to be. Why not start looking for a new job today and when you actually find one, then quit. No need to put so much pressure on yourself. If you can't find a job within a month or two, well then your question is answered, don't quit. If you can find a better job, then get out of there.

Re: Tell HN: I think I'm quitting my job today

#53
I left my job in the 90's with less 'life line' then you appear to have. I've owned my own company (in partnership with others) ever since. With the things you've done on the side you appear to be on the ball and ready for it. I was lucky to have partners who compensated for my weaknesses. It sounds like you even have that base sort of covered with the people you know in the industry.

You mention guilt about others not finding jobs in this economy. Think about it this way: If you start your own thing maybe you could end up hiring people into a company that doesn't have a lunch bell (do u guys play dodge ball after lunch on the playground - that would be cool). In other words as a company owner you can shape the world more than you can as an employee (potentially).

If you're a methodical planning type you might want to slow down and do some paper and pencil introspection. I used a book (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1883487242?tag=openlibr-20) back in the day (circa 1992) to plan my transition from a day job to a self employed person. This book has questionnaires that are aimed at determining whether you are the type of person that can survive on your own. I flunked them all and went ahead and quit my job anyway (just because I wanted to) but the book did remove my illusions that it would be easy for me to make it on my own.

Anyway - good luck and get yourself happy.

Joe

Re: Tell HN: I think I'm quitting my job today

#55
post #22

What is the conventional advice given during a depression/recession? Keep your head down, keep a stable job, keep that income coming in, you're better off than all those other poor sods on the street. What is the conventional advice given during boom times? Get a new house, a new car, a new TV, consume, consume, consume. Don't worry about debt, since you're always going to make more. Don't like your job? Quit it now…

No dependents, yes significant debt (student loans). But oh well, as everyone else seems to be in agreement with, you only live once!

Student loans can be deferred or stretched out for decades, plus the interest is deductible (for some folks). I wouldn't worry about them unless they're huge (100K+).

Re: Tell HN: I think I'm quitting my job today

#56
I think you will be making the right decision.

A year ago, I was working for a web design firm working with the Drupal content management system. I wasn't the greatest at it, but I was in the position to learn and grow my skillset and not have people upset at me for getting things in late or asking questions... rather they were excited because I was learning and saw the potential I saw in myself. Needless to say, I wasn't working there too much longer, for personal reasons. However, I missed the job like no other. I had finally found a job I could truly love.

After that, with the economy the way it has been, I bounced from a tree care company (working with a friend, not so terrible) to a fast food restaurant (horrible, never again) and then to a call center providing tech support for Blackberry phones to people who under other circumstances should seriously find a twelve step program for their addiction to those damned devices. Bouncing around, I thought I would never get the opportunity I once had. I missed it terribly and pined for it regularly.

And then I found it. After two weeks working part time as a contractor, I was asked to leave my job because they (my new employer) knew they could provide me with enough work and I was doing better than they expected as far as quality of work and timeliness of delivery were concerned. I didn't give it a second thought. I hate not working with the web. I am totally and thoroughly enamored by this technology and know that if I could stay in this career field I will be happy.

The point is... do what you love. Don't hesitate, don't second guess, just do it. You won't regret it. :)

Re: Tell HN: I think I'm quitting my job today

#58
Another perspective might be to quit mentally, but keep going in every day (so you can collect the paycheck, ins., etc). If you can allow yourself to get over the feeling you "have" to be there everyday, you will feel empowered. Don't let them get to you, you need to feel like you have the upper hand. So, let go of the fear and uncertainty of not having a job, embrace the fact that you can leave at any minute and you will feel much better. Once you know you can leave at any minute and the job doesn't define you, they no longer have control over you. In the meantime, go and look for another job or figure out what you want to do; when everything is lined up you can stop going to your job. Good luck

Re: Tell HN: I think I'm quitting my job today

#60
My one recommendation would be to have a plan. Don't quit your job or start a startup just to do so - just because you feel like that's what people on HN do. Do it for a reason - an organic solution you've derived form a problem you see in your life is best. And have a plan, as to how you want to attack that solution and problem. While the plan will likely become obsolete in a week, it helps you iterate when you've already thought about where you're headed...

To answer your question directly though; no, there's nothing wrong with quitting your job.

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