> #1a: You don’t lose people to silly things like their significant other going to medical school. I really don't like the attitude here. Your significant other moving, is _not a silly thing_. > I’ll let you in on a secret: most of our remote developers work longer hours than our in-office devs. Yet another reason not to work remotely -- to maintain your work-life balance. Home is a place you spend with family and/or…
I don't want to speak for the OP, but I took this sentence as, "Losing a good developer because his significant other is headed to medical school is a really silly thing for a company to do", which I would completely agree with.