Earlier quoted context omitted.
I seem to remember a number of them didn't need to take the funds, but were arm-twisted into it so that it would look like a general national problem as opposed to bailing out some well-connected (yet incompetent) cronies.
It wasn't about cronyism: they couldn't "bail out" specific, failing banks or else it would be obvious to stakeholders where the "bad" banks were. Every bank that would have received funds under these circumstances would be susceptible to a run. It was a crafty play, done against the will of the some of the banks. The industry needed an infusion of cash, and they spread it around a bunch of the biggest players.
Ford ticked up after not taking a handout, larger well governed banks had no such opportunity.
Deposits up to $100K (or thereabouts) were insured by the FDIC, so even under a run, the savers in the bad banks were not going to be left high and dry; and perhaps wiser about where they put their money in the future. Perhaps the Federal Government didn't want to see the FDIC invoked.
Instead, a precedent was set; bad behavior was not punished (by way of market action), and good behavior is tainted by association (via political demonizing).