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Indeed. So the advice should rather be: "I won't put bullshit excuses to get to where I want."
And what's a "bullshit excuse"? I don't think you'll find an easy criteria for that, either. Is "someone else's happiness" a bullshit excuse?
What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
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Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
#162Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
#163My candidates (not in order): Getting Things Done (Superpower: Time Management) Bargaining for Advantage (Superpower: Negotiation) The Art of Learning (Superpower: Learning) Telling Lies (Superpower: Facial expressions etc...somewhat of a cheat since you'll probably need to read more on the topic) Economics in One Lesson (Superpower: Understanding the fundamentals of economics...and wandering down the dark,Austrian p…
Austrian economics is the opposite of a superpower. It's a mental device for rationalizing the present state of the world so that you never have to act.
Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
#164Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality will teach you how to think properly, and discover people's motives. Great book.
CONSTANT NEVER-CEASING VIGILANCE!
Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
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I mean this tongue-in-cheek, but.. that is still compatible with Mao: I am everything. Everything exists for me. I have only an obligation towards myself, not towards others. I am only responsible for my own reality, not for past or future. I am only responsible for that which I know. I have my needs and I follow them. This is the way great heroes live. -- Mao Tse Tung in an essay he wrote as student (describing his…
Wait... Are you saying Mao is evil? Are you summing up all his actions, and written works with one quote from one essay... He wrote when he was young? And some how it's evil?
Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
#166Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality will teach you how to think properly, and discover people's motives. Great book.
Or, alternately, it will teach you to be a really paranoid bastard ;-). CONSTANT NEVER-CEASING VIGILANCE!
Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
#167Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality will teach you how to think properly, and discover people's motives. Great book.
Or, alternately, it will teach you to be a really paranoid bastard ;-). CONSTANT NEVER-CEASING VIGILANCE!
Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
#168Earlier quoted context omitted.
And what's a "bullshit excuse"? I don't think you'll find an easy criteria for that, either. Is "someone else's happiness" a bullshit excuse?
This is my problem with self-help books... you must try to replace years of your own learning, rationalizing and understanding with someone else's ideas, absorbed only through a few hours of reading. Naturally, it falls apart quickly.
Is there something the book _reader_ might do (e.g. before / during reading the book) to be more receptive?
What other medium would work better in your opinion for the kind of life change that self help usually tries to create?
Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
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Yes, he means the guy who starved 39 million people to death during his reign of terror. Yes, he means the guy who made my wife spend three years of her childhood in constant hunger. Yes, the guy who sent my father in law to a labor camp for ten years for making a joke about him. At least, that's what his best friend told them when they were torturing him. Yes, * that * Mao. Still, I'd like to thank him for inventing…
Wow, miked, I'm with you more than you know. We now have at least two of us here on HN whose fathers-in-law were sent to labor camps by Mao. I guess it stands to reason that with Mao's victims as numberless as the stars, there would be victims' relatives everywhere.
Stalin (who would know) once said that one death is a tragedy, a million deaths is a statistic. When my wife tells me about her childhood (she only does this when I ask about it) it's the little details that chill me, not the "statistics" of her life. Here's a few:
She and her friends used to want a taste of sweetness so much (the Great Helmsman apparently considered candy a bourgeois excess) that they used to pull the bodies of honeybees apart and suck on them to get at the nectar. (This from a woman who today loves animals more than anyone I know.)
When my wife was in grade school she got so hungry one day that she snuck off into a field near her school and dug up a single sweet potato and ate it raw. She was caught and, for this horrendous crime, her principle put her on limited rations (and she was already hungry all the time) for an indefinite period. She became weaker and weaker as the months went by. Finally, after six months of this constant hunger, one of her teachers became alarmed at her state and went to the principle and asked to have her rations restored to her previous (limited) status. The principle's response? "Oh, I had forgotten she was still on limited rations. I only meant for that to last a month. Yes, restore her food quota." This was the little girl who is now my wife.
Re: What one book could give me a new, useful superpower?
#170Autobiography of a Spiritually Incorrect Mystic - Osho Life changing.