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> And at least 55-75% of the people know each other face to face through industry vertical specific events, trade shows, conferences and similar. Tbh, my experience with _that_ has been worse than with a random sample of internet background radiation, as people seem to have no idea how to filter correctly and who to vouch for and why. _Especially_ with people they know via work, conferences, etc. Spaces that do not f…
Within this context it's specifically people in the ISP and telecom business, most of whom have been in the business 15, 20 or 25 years now. Some of us started out as junior NOC techs, junior sysadmin/Linux/BSD guys in the late 1990s at different dotcom 1.0 startups. At a certain scale you know who the people are that have super-admin privileges at very specific ASNs and they are well known in the industry. Basically…
I know the kind of space you are referring to. I'm in those too. But my point is that they regularly disappoint me.
Which is usually worse disappointment than with randoms on the internet, because the people should know better but don't.
With these tight knit spaces you get all the social dysfunctions of people liking each other not for merit but because they've been around each other for long, and that's - for me personally - worse than the public alternative, as you suddenly do not argue with logic, but with the tribe and social cohesion.