If I understand your comment correctly (and highly likely I missed something), I am very similar. Using stuff at work the AI team tries their best to ensure we don't leak our internal data or code.

But for my personal use, I'm totally fine with helping train the models.

I'll be called naive, but I'm on the optimist side of the fence here. I hope, and expect, AI actually frees us up and delivers much improved lives for everyone. I know this goes against the current zeitgeist, but it is genuinely what I think will happen rather than the dystopia most people predict.