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I agree - I think one of the biggest reasons memory systems fail in LLMs is that they have poor theory of mind - they're terrible at considering how others will react. Both humans yes, but also future versions of itself. When asked to give advice to itself, it pontificates at length about trivial stuff it already knows and fails to emphasize the stuff that was new or interesting
Alfred North Whitehead talks about the notion of "Importance" as fundamental to the human (and all other living things) way of being. Living creatures first and foremost select information that is important to them from the broader environment, and then make decisions and take actions. (Of course at a physiological level it's much more complicated than this, but it's a sound philosophical description of how living th…
For humans with limited space, “Importance” is an output of a first pass “of the available infinite amount of information, what do I need to consider to solve this problem”. And it’s not necessarily a good algorithm. People misidentify “importance” all the time.