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Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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I would assume that they mean your great great grandparents benefited greatly by having kids because it brought in more labor while it mostly just cost food. These days there are tons of extra costs to having kids that didn't exist in the past and none of those costs are offset by their labors.

We’re reaching further into the past than great great grandparents to get to the large families for farming but sure. Calling it a “fine” to have kids is really bizarre framing though.

Taking the UK as an example, legislation restricting the use of children under 14 in employment was only adopted in 1933. Previously it looked more like this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_labour_in_the_British_In...

The USA didn't change things up considerably until the 1930s: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_labor_in_the_United_Stat...

Not soon after, obviously ww2 and then the baby boom after that. The role of children in families changed hugely in the 20th century.

Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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It's really not. Nor is it phones. Real estate is too expensive and rent is too high and people don't want to raise a family in a tiny apartment where both people have to work long hours. Combined with the fear TV sold to people such that they have to hover over their children 24/7 for most of their lives.

Real estate has little to do with this. Our peers in other countries can live with dirt floors, no climate control or running water, and tarp roofing. And they have no problem having kids. Until they get the smartphone (which is now starting to happen). People have always had far less and had more children. The wealth you have now is a modern phenomenon and perhaps a bit of a flukish bubble. Your own dopamine blindfo…

Then you're too young and fail to remember many things. Phones are very new, the decline in birthrate in the rich western economies is not.

Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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post #196

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We’re reaching further into the past than great great grandparents to get to the large families for farming but sure. Calling it a “fine” to have kids is really bizarre framing though.

Taking the UK as an example, legislation restricting the use of children under 14 in employment was only adopted in 1933. Previously it looked more like this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_labour_in_the_British_In... The USA didn't change things up considerably until the 1930s: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_labor_in_the_United_Stat... Not soon after, obviously ww2 and then the baby boom after that. The ro…

The number of children per family has been plunging since 1800.

https://populationeducation.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/a...

Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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Back when we lived without phones, we used to read instruction labels on all and any household cleaning products that were stored in the bathroom. I bet there too was some obscure newspaper column that advised against that. Yet, lo and behold, we survived!

> Back when we lived without phones, we used to read instruction labels on all and any household cleaning products that were stored in the bathroom. Wow, I forgot that I used to do this! And I'd puzzle over whether any ozone was left with all the CFCs being emitted. But yes, the OP is very edgy take that totally ignores the existence of book/magazine baskets next to toilets. It's a huge plot point in Breaking Bad, fo…

I had legit forgotten that hank figures it out on the toilet.

Vince Gilligan truly made tv gold.

Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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post #201

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Taking the UK as an example, legislation restricting the use of children under 14 in employment was only adopted in 1933. Previously it looked more like this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_labour_in_the_British_In... The USA didn't change things up considerably until the 1930s: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_labor_in_the_United_Stat... Not soon after, obviously ww2 and then the baby boom after that. The ro…

The number of children per family has been plunging since 1800. https://populationeducation.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/a...

Did they have phones back then?

Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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The number of children per family has been plunging since 1800. https://populationeducation.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/a...

Did they have phones back then?

That’s a great question for someone else. I didn’t say anything about phones.

Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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Dogs also figured this out, and it goes both ways. This is why they stare at you when they're going, especially when they're puppies.

Since I can remember I wonder why dogs do that but it had never occurred to me that that was the reason. What the hell. How many other _obvious_ things I've been blind my whole life

Hey, I only learned this a few years ago myself when I was reading a book about my dog's breed! And I realize I wasn't super specific (although probably obvious) that they stare at you while they go to make sure you are on the lookout.

Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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My parents had the Desiderata 'poem' on the back of the toilet door when I was growing up, so I read it a thousand times. Being older and reading it again, it's a beautiful sentiment and something that, I think, seeped into my subconscious and made me a better person. My favorite line: "You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here" https://www.desiderata.com/deside…

Oh, thank you, what a lovely choice of text. I wonder if your parents meant for you to read it? My sister mentioned to me recently she has a print of Wild Geese by Mary Oliver on the back of her bathroom door. Your quotation made me think of her poem. https://allpoetry.com/poem/15374223-Wild-geese-by-Mary-J-Oli...

That's beautiful!

Re: Don't use your phone while you poop

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Thank You! Thank you very much...

This has much less to do with taking a shit, than it does with sitting and quietly thinking to yourself.

This idea that you need to be constantly receiving some external input, and that just sitting and thinking is "boring", is really the primary symptom of internet brain damage.

Yes, there used to be National Geographic in the bathroom. and the people of that era weren't internet brain damaged, they were TV brain damaged.

The barrage of electronic media assaulting our senses has led to the biggest decline in individual human thought, ever.

So, go take a dump, and don't take your phone...

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