Earlier quoted context omitted.
I have watched more than a few videos where someone tries to upgrade soldered RAM at home, only ending up sending the laptop to the same repair shop they hoped to skip after a failed experiment. Unless you can put money on your words and provide some sort of guarantee, nobody is going to take that.
The point is you can do it yourself , you don't need anyone else's guarantee.
In practice, it's more like a 75-90% failure rate if you're unfamiliar with ball-soldering techniques, which most are since it's been considered impractical to do soldering in the US since the through-hole days, and so there's not a professional tradesman class to teach kids. What does exist of soldering is stuck in the far past from an electronics manufacturing perspective.
Tl;dr: https://xkcd.com/2501/