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I thought it was a fairly common turn of phrase! https://blog.codinghorror.com/the-project-postmortem/
A postmortem is for reflecting on something that went so wrong you had to kill it, and you want to objectively describe what led to that, and what lessons can be learnt from the failure. A retrospective is just the reflecting part, without implying you believe it is going to fail and you're looking for some schadenfreude ;)
> The goal of a postmortem is to draw meaningful conclusions to help you learn from your past successes and failures. Despite its grim-sounding name, a postmortem can be an extremely productive method of improving your development practices.