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The kids with phones are alright

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Re: The kids with phones are alright

#91

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Reminds me of the "good guys with guns" narrative tbh. Being able to document such transgressions is not enough of an argument to do a mass rollout of ad display technology IMHO.

What do you think about legalizing drugs?

no one in the know cares about legal status of drugs as substances for personal enjoyment. see Shulgin.

Re: The kids with phones are alright

#92

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Reminds me of the "good guys with guns" narrative tbh. Being able to document such transgressions is not enough of an argument to do a mass rollout of ad display technology IMHO.

What do you think about legalizing drugs?

In general it reduces underage usage as the sellers don't want to lose their sales license.

Re: The kids with phones are alright

#94
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Do people want to restrict 16 year olds with phones? That seems like a really bad idea. For 10 year olds it makes sense, but 16 is nearly adult; they need to really learn this responsibility. And of course they need a phone when they go out like these girls. A bit of a weird tangent from what apparently is harassment in a train or something like that? I admit it's hard to follow what is going on.

> And of course they need a phone when they go out like these girls. Do teens need phones? Sure, they need a phone. Arguably any child old enough to know how to make a phone call needs one. But do they need a miniature computer to scroll through AI slop 10+ hours a day? These aren't the same question. Confusing these two is dangerous.

> make a phone call

Kids don't want to call, and parents don't want to receive calls except for critical situations. Only elders and scammers are actually phoning.

> AI slop

Same deal as what the GP is pointing at: you need to train kids to deal with slop, and not have them face it on their own at once at some arbitrary adult age.

Re: The kids with phones are alright

#95

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Where's the setting to make YouTube not display shorts?

This works for me: echo "0.0.0.0 youtube.com www.youtube.com m.youtube.com" | sudo tee -a /etc/hosts

That’s all of YouTube. There’s some good stuff on there, just not in the “Shorts” tab.

Re: The kids with phones are alright

#96
My question to these sorts of articles is, okay so what do we do then?

What do we do when we know that social media it not healthy for kids. Its not good for their attention spans or mental health to a much greater degree than other forms of media.

Nobody is saying kids shouldn't have phones, but they should be able to use them without being engulfed in social media content that has been shown to have a negative impact on them. Whether its algorithmic feeds targeting particular age groups or short form video content that is reducing attention spans and the ability to concentrate.

I have no idea how an adult filming young girls on a train has anything to do with social media bans. The Senior Legal Officer is absolutely entitled to having a phone, but absolutely not to use it however he means. The teenagers are entitled to having a phone, but potentially may have limits to how they can use those devices.

Just because there are adults with full agency that do the wrong thing, doesn't mean we should remove protections on young people. Just because adults with full agency drive recklessly, doesn't mean we should allow 13 year olds the ability to drive.

Re: The kids with phones are alright

#97

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Do people really want to restrict 16 year olds with alcohol? 16 is nearly adult, they need to learn responsibility

Teenagers learning how to have a couple of beers with a meal would be an improvement on them turning 18/20/21 and going and getting hammered on shots

It's interesting how many conclusions are being assumed here

In many countries cultures, strict parents/laws are seen as loving and protecting. Being told "don't drink untl you're at least 20" isn't seen as "forbidden fruit" you're being denied.

Re: The kids with phones are alright

#98
I think most reasonable people can agree social media/internet can be a dangerous place where your images will be taken and posted to others without your consent. This isn't a matter of age.

Except this is exactly what Heather Burns is doing.

Not this guy, who (I had to check) was apparently following the law(?) and the article even admits this:

> as far as policymakers are concerned, it’s the senior legal officer with the phone who is rightfully entitled to have the phone and use it any way he pleases

(if the law is bad, change it. but that's not this article)

It's just a strange argument to say we should loosen the regulations when you have people like Heather exhibiting the problematic behavior that these laws are supposed to protect people from.

Re: The kids with phones are alright

#99

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Reminds me of the "good guys with guns" narrative tbh. Being able to document such transgressions is not enough of an argument to do a mass rollout of ad display technology IMHO.

the even more direct analogy is the Arab Spring, where social media and phones were widely advertised as a means to bring evil dictators down, as a democratic, youth empowering anti evil old pervert technology. The tech industry obviously jumped onto it because it's a rhetorically powerful argument but it tells you very little what the systemic consequences are ten years down the road.

It's still funny how much it's celebrated because it brings down establishments, not realizing it'll also bring down their own. Reminds me of why no one should start biological warfare.

Re: The kids with phones are alright

#100
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post #43

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I think a lot of people here just don't have kids of a relevant age yet. They assume either the bullying doesn't happen, or it isn't any different than bullying in person, or that it's easy to stop when it happens. You can just not have phones, but it's socially isolating. You have to frequently audit what's on their phones because they often won't volunteer what's happening. You take them out of one group chat only…

Well I guess it is true that I don't have children of that age. My daughter is on the board of a charity that deals with youth issues though.

So neither you, nor your daughter, have any experience with the issue?
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