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The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #14

> "More than half (51%) of participants indicated that maintaining an online presence feels like work." Well, because it is. Social media turned most of its users into digital beggars.

Digital beggars whose activity is enriching platform holders much more than what they themselves get out of it.

Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #22

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There is more than enough research. https://thehighwire.com/news/metas-internal-research-proves-... But nothing's going to change as long as we continue pretending that billionaires hoarding pieces of "special" paper (or numbers in a bank account) are less mentally ill than people hoarding pieces of regular paper (or other things).

You think billionaires are hoarders because the shares they own become worth a lot of money when they build successful companies?

Circular definition. Number go up = "successful".

A non-hoarding economy would look very different, be far more exciting and inventive, and wouldn't be staging an ecological suicide run.

Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #28

Its strange for me. Some years ago, I only thought that the younger kids/adults was had the "separation anxiety" when it came to social media, but I have a 40 year old sister in law that is purely obsessed and it is crazy. I'm a big tech person but I know how to put my phone down. Heck most of the time I don't even have it on me.

Understand that social media endorphin-inducing algorithm optimizers, have made these sites optimized for _all_ ages, so it should not be a surprise. Very few of us are immune.

Agreed.I am a victim of doom scrolling

Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #14

> "More than half (51%) of participants indicated that maintaining an online presence feels like work." Well, because it is. Social media turned most of its users into digital beggars.

One of the most insidious aspects of social media is how the reward and discoverability mechanisms train users to become their own marketing department. It's most obvious on LinkedIn, where your presence is materially tied to career growth, but each platform does it in its own way.

Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #20

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Even HN has a clout score, and seeing it move up/down, or slapping that up/down arrow, can trigger the same dopamine as social media by MegaCorp.

And the content discovery algorithm is tuned to please the masses, the users drive the algorithm which promotes or buries the content for everyone else. I think the moment you use a socially driven algorithm to show/hide content from users is when you're planted firmly in social media territory.

It's why I prefer not to get bogged down in litigation over what counts as social media. It's far more productive to look at the individual mechanisms that make web platforms bad for socialising.

Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #22

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You think billionaires are hoarders because the shares they own become worth a lot of money when they build successful companies?

It's like playing cookie clicker except the higher your number goes up the more social status you and power you have.

And like cookie clicker, once you're watching the number going up long term, it's hard for your mind to accept a point at which you have "enough".

Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #15

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In 2026, expecting articles about social media to contain a definition of the term ‘social media’ is so peculiar as to seem disingenuous. Can you perhaps explain exactly what you think is so ambiguous about how they use the term that we can’t just assume the common meaning?

What's missing for me is that they never seem to mention which social media platforms in particular these statements are directed at. There are many social media platforms, some of them similar, but some are also vastly different from each other (e.g. Hacker News vs. TikTok) Making statements about all of social media without such clarifications makes them pretty unreliable for me.

I’m not sure how much it makes sense to pick this nit for a public opinion survey of this nature. The survey is being sent to people who mostly won’t think of the term in such precise ways, and even in social sciences it’s considered poor form to try to measure more precisely than your noise floor permits.

That said, I would assume most respondents have a more popular conception of the term. That’s going to be inherently a little fuzzy, but implies implies sites like X, Facebook and TikTok count, that Reddit is marginal, and that more “oldschool” things like webforums, chat services and even Hacker News are out.

Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #28

Its strange for me. Some years ago, I only thought that the younger kids/adults was had the "separation anxiety" when it came to social media, but I have a 40 year old sister in law that is purely obsessed and it is crazy. I'm a big tech person but I know how to put my phone down. Heck most of the time I don't even have it on me.

Understand that social media endorphin-inducing algorithm optimizers, have made these sites optimized for _all_ ages, so it should not be a surprise. Very few of us are immune.

The biggest culprits are the senior citizens. They are the most addicted to social media.

Re: The great digital fatigue: How digital burnout is changing social media use

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post #20

Earlier quoted context omitted.

And the content discovery algorithm is tuned to please the masses, the users drive the algorithm which promotes or buries the content for everyone else. I think the moment you use a socially driven algorithm to show/hide content from users is when you're planted firmly in social media territory.

It's why I prefer not to get bogged down in litigation over what counts as social media. It's far more productive to look at the individual mechanisms that make web platforms bad for socialising.

Agreed. For me, "social media" is just any website/app that allows users to contribute content and make comments.

HN is absolutely "social media", as it Facebook and WhatsApp.

With that said, I do believe social media platforms exist on a spectrum of "mostly benign, maybe even useful" to "mostly harmful" with closed groups/forums well to the benign end, targeted subjects with heavy moderation somewhere to the benign end of the spectrum (HN falls here), and "free for all" well to the "harmful" end (this is where most of Meta lives).

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