This makes so much sense as to why I've always felt that Opus 4.8 was leagues ahead of GPT 5.5. It's so good at taking underspecified requirements and filling in the gaps with sensible approaches for your project
I don't think either harnesses do enough to encourage the model to challenge all assumptions and ask questions, maybe because users might find it annoying. That step is basically a requirement IMO.
I've found all of the GPT-5 models to be very nit-picky, useful for code review and mathematics (important for my work), but seemingly gets in the way of "aesthetic" code, e.g. overly defensive code to cover all edge cases, even if unlikely.
There is seemingly also a tradeoff between flexibility vs instruction following. In my experience Opus will sometimes ignore instructions but can "fill in the blanks" more, vs GPT-5.5 follows instructions better but perhaps at the cost of rigidity.