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> Be kind. Don't be snarky. Converse curiously; don't cross-examine. Edit out swipes. Sincerely, HN Guidelines Police :-) https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
I get it, but if the author of the article uses a biased and loaded language, I think it's fair game to do the same in the comments.
Now apply that to the n people reading a given post or comment! If those commenters try to communicate on what they think is "fair game" for the given conversation, then two comments deep in and you might already be at a 7 when the author thought they were at a 3. In more extreme cases, two people could misunderstand each other through text and simply go from a 1 to a 7 in a single comment, spending the rest of the time shooting back loaded replies at each other instead of thinking about the topic together.
It's a very human reaction we all tend towards, even when we set out our intents to do the "always reply with..." mindset instead of a tit-for-tat one. That's why I always start with the ideal approach - I can count on myself to help foul it up :D.