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Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

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Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

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That's horrible but also a stark reminder for how quickly life can change for any one of us...

True but a motorcycle is basically 100% given that you will crash and have bad injuries.

It's a risky activity, yes, but lets not forget metropolitan areas in other countries are shock filled with motorcycles and most people live their entire life without being involved in any majorly serious accidents.

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

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Please don't get a motorcycle: A good felon buddy of mine has been out now for 4 years. He slowly built a car repair business, with steady clientele, and got his life back on track – including reasonable sobriety and a steady relationship. He and his girl would cruise around often, enjoying their newfound happiness . Last week he totaled his Harley and his body (destroyed bike, multiple broken bones). Total reset. He…

I’m sorry if i’m missing something… what does this have to do with his story other than addiction and felony? (fwiw i agree regardless, don’t get a motorcycle, lost too many friends to accidents or the following addiction)

He's just pointing out that after putting so much work into getting their life turned around it can easy be ruined by indulging in high risk behavior.

It's not bad advice, just unlikely to land. Thrill seekers seek thrills.

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

#53
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as someone who just got back from a nice motorcycle group ride: lol

Stay safe, young grasshopper. You can be the best rider in the world and still have a bad day/week/month/year/life.

Can never predict your future. Enjoy what you will, when you can. I was in a motorcycle accident in 2021, TBI, hospitalized for 3mo, induced coma, and rehab for 9 months after.

I am back on the horse. It is just a zen and still relaxing time, albeit more anxiety while riding, than before. Thankful I can still ride, and I do.

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

#54
post #46

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I’m sorry if i’m missing something… what does this have to do with his story other than addiction and felony? (fwiw i agree regardless, don’t get a motorcycle, lost too many friends to accidents or the following addiction)

The wrecklessness which brings some people into prison, is what brings them & others lusting towards motorcycle culture, often shortly upon release. Something something something anti-social something. I'm just offering real-world advice after witnessing all the broken bones and jerked roadrash upon this tattoo'd convict's broken body. Shouldn't be alive.

Billions of people have a motorcycle globally... Some anecdote from a chronically motorcycle adverse culture (US) doesn't mean a whole mean of transport is invalid...

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

#55

Please don't get a motorcycle: A good felon buddy of mine has been out now for 4 years. He slowly built a car repair business, with steady clientele, and got his life back on track – including reasonable sobriety and a steady relationship. He and his girl would cruise around often, enjoying their newfound happiness . Last week he totaled his Harley and his body (destroyed bike, multiple broken bones). Total reset. He…

You could make a similar argument for bicycles.

Apparently the numbers for bicycles are a bit better, even in adjusted terms, but still. They're very unsafe in general.

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

#56
post #42

Please don't get a motorcycle: A good felon buddy of mine has been out now for 4 years. He slowly built a car repair business, with steady clientele, and got his life back on track – including reasonable sobriety and a steady relationship. He and his girl would cruise around often, enjoying their newfound happiness . Last week he totaled his Harley and his body (destroyed bike, multiple broken bones). Total reset. He…

as someone who just got back from a nice motorcycle group ride: lol

That's a bit like saying "I don't wear a seatbelt when driving a car, but I've never had a problem."

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

#57

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That's horrible but also a stark reminder for how quickly life can change for any one of us...

True but a motorcycle is basically 100% given that you will crash and have bad injuries.

It's hardly any given. You can just ride properly.

In other countries they are a huge means of transport.

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

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Please don't get a motorcycle: A good felon buddy of mine has been out now for 4 years. He slowly built a car repair business, with steady clientele, and got his life back on track – including reasonable sobriety and a steady relationship. He and his girl would cruise around often, enjoying their newfound happiness . Last week he totaled his Harley and his body (destroyed bike, multiple broken bones). Total reset. He…

Have you ever been on a motorcycle?

Closest feeling you can get to flying and a helluva lot cheaper.

Bike costs are line noise, (cheap!) planes I fly are better part of $200 an hour.

I get what you're saying though. Barely been on bike since latest baby and wondering if I should just sell them for now.

As much as I miss riding and wife misses riding with me, if the worst were to happen, yikes.

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

#59
Extreme mental clarity in "Eventually, she told me that it made more sense for me to quit my job while she worked, so that I could spend all of my free time trying to get another tech job".

I could've never imagined long-term-thinking like this from a former addict.

Re: Building from zero after addiction, prison, and a felony

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post #56
post #42

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as someone who just got back from a nice motorcycle group ride: lol

That's a bit like saying "I don't wear a seatbelt when driving a car, but I've never had a problem."

The previous is a bit like saying "My pal got hurt in a car crash, never get a car".
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