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Having kids and raising them is your primary purpose as a man. Anything else you spend your time on is secondary to that.
You’re absolutely 100% correct. As a mid-fourties family-less man, I absolutely regret many of the decisions I’ve made that got me here. I’ve realised I’ve been playing at a low steaks table. Smashing box and doing drugs is something a guy should do very briefly, if at all, in his early twenties. This is not a Man’s Game. Then he’d better man up and focus on what is Good and Right or his life will be a fucking waste…
I had my first kid accidentally in college and dropped out to focus on that. Very grateful for it.