I was hoping 'respectify' could mean respect for the users.
This is a very important problem space. Maybe the most important today - we desprately need a digital third place that isn't awful. But I think these attempts are misled.
The core issue seems to be that we want our communities to be infinite. Why? Well, because there is currently no way to solve the community discoverability problem without being the massive thing. But that is the issue to solve.
We need a lot of Dunbar's number sized communities. Those communities allow for 'skin in the game' where reputation matters. And maybe a fractal sort of way for those communities to share between them.
The problem is in the discoverability and in a gate keeping that is porous enough to give people a chance.
Solve that, and you solve the the third place problem we have currently. I don't have a solution but I wish I did.
Infinite communities are fundamentally what causes the tribalism (ironically), the loneliness, and the promotion of rage.
No one wants to be forced to argue correctly. Forcing people into a way to think via software is fundamentally authoritarian and sad.