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40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

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Re: 40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

#41
post #6

If more people lived together with friends, that’d make a dent in both the housing and loneliness crises.

Part of the loneliness crisis is the difficulty of making friends.

This reminds me, yesterday I was walking down the hallway of my apartment building, and one of my neighbors passed by me but neglected to even acknowledge my existence, because their head was down staring at their smartphone.

Re: 40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

#42
post #11
post #6

If more people lived together with friends, that’d make a dent in both the housing and loneliness crises.

The issue is the number of people who ‘surprise’ you with out of control behaviors that are a huge issue with room mates. And getting out of living situation with someone like that can be extremely difficult. People can seem perfectly fine, until they seem to spontaneously turn into hoarders, or start eating all your food and lying about it, or start being aggressively in your face about a bunch of antagonistic cultu…

It’s something europeans don’t yet understand, that “diversity” has utterly destroyed community, trust, and tranquility in the US; mostly because it has been forced upon people against their will in direct contradiction of the core tenets of the Constitution and founding principles of America.

I realize hearing that or seeing that others may read that, may anger people who are deeply invested in the fraud that diversity is good, but all the legitimate research into the topic all tells us the same thing; that “diversity” is detrimental to any and all human communities all around the world, even for the very group that pushes it on others while aggressively rejecting it for themselves and their own.

edit: No amount of downvoting will change reality, whether you shoot the messenger or not. It's a shame, because good does not actually prevail, especially with brainwashed fools who assist those seeking the demise of others. Support of "diversity" is no different than the support of the genocide the jewish state committed and is to this day still committing in Gaza... the support of evil without the intelligence to understand that.

Re: 40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

#43
When I was a twentysomething, I had roommates. This saved money on rent and bulk purchases (which let me spend more time having fun and save money) and provided a starter-kit social circle in a new city. It also honed conflict-resolution skills and ability to be civil. And when I got a partner, it made moving in together smoother.

Something I’ve noticed recently is many college graduates living alone. That’s fine. But it’s a weird default for early in one’s career. If I had one general piece of advice for anyone starting their career, it would be to seek out a living situation with roommates.

Side question: are more college students staying in solo dorms?

Re: 40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

#45
post #7

Is it a bad thing? People's life choices are their own. 29% seems like a fairly neutral number.

> Is it a bad thing? People's life choices are their own. How much of a choice is it that they made willing? The number has doubled over the last few decades: * https://www.self.inc/blog/adults-living-alone * https://thesocietypages.org/graphicsociology/tag/living-alon... There are health (and happiness) consequences to not being connected to other people: * https://archive.is/https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archiv…

Perhaps the number was artificially low before, and more people actually wanted to live on their own. Loneliness is not the same thing as a one-person household.

I'm not seeing evidence that 15% is the correct number and 29% is automatically bad.

Re: 40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

#46
post #6

If more people lived together with friends, that’d make a dent in both the housing and loneliness crises.

Living close to friends and having a community that knows/supports each other helps a lot but living with friends is a good way to end up with less friends. Someone you can stand being around all day is very different than someone you really enjoy spending a few hours a month with.

> Someone you can stand being around all day is very different than someone you really enjoy spending a few hours a month with

One is a friend. The other an acquaintance.

Re: 40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

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post #27

Earlier quoted context omitted.

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> Unrealistic expectations from women And men too... lots of them stay adolescent well into their 30s and require a caregiver or a substitute mom more than a gf/wife. Men exclusively blaming women for their problems tend to be basement dwellers or other kind of failures who don't want to take any responsibility

> lots of them stay adolescent well into their 30s and require a caregiver or a substitute mom more than a gf/wife

What do you actually mean by this part?

Re: 40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

#49
post #6

If more people lived together with friends, that’d make a dent in both the housing and loneliness crises.

You know how you can tell if you have a really good friend? They will help you dispose of your roommate's body, 24 by 7, no questions asked.

Re: 40M Americans Live Alone, 29% of households

#50
post #13

It's not a high number when compared to other first-world countries: https://statranker.org/population/top-10-countries-with-high...

Interesting that UK is not in the top 10 list. Because of more ethnic diversity, or because they cannot afford single households?

Rare to live alone in London, even amongst single thirtysomething professionals earning well above median income.
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