In watching my kids grow up I'm always struck by my inability to figure out why they did certain things. They obviously had reasons but when questioned those reasons were regularly things I would have never thought of. I always felt it was a bit like anthropomorphizing animals to make deductions about their behavior. You might think you have a good hypothesis but it's very difficult to know that you're working with t…
The more I read about psychology/rationality, the more I realize that what you're saying is also true about ourselves . We regularly do things that don't make sense, and have only vague, and often wrong, ideas about why we did what we did. Except that our brain is amazingly good at self-delusion, making us believe that there were reasons behind it all.
What is often ignored is that rational decision making depends on priorities and estimations of prior probability, and these vary wildly based on circumstance.