Instead of focusing on the technical reasons why, they should answer how such a change bubbled out to cause such a massive impact instead.
Why: Proxy fails requests
Why: Handlers crashed because of OOM
Why: Clickhouse returns too much data
Why: A change was introduced causing double the amount of data
Why: A central change was rolled out immediately to all cluster (single point of failure)
Why: There are exemptions or standard operating procedure (gate) for releasing changes to the hot path for cloudflares network infra.
While the Clickhouse change is important, I personally think it is crucial that Cloudflare tackles the processes, and possibly gates / controls rollout for hot path system, no matter what kind of change they are when they're at that scale it should be possible. But that is probably enough co-driving. It to me seems like a process issue more than a technical one.