I think a lot of this comes down to the question: Why aren't tables first class citizens in programming languages? If you step back, it's kind of weird that there's no mainstream programming language that has tables as first class citizens. Instead, we're stuck learning multiple APIs (polars, pandas) which are effectively programming languages for tables. R is perhaps the closest, because it has data.frame as a 'firs…
Soon as you start doing things like joins, it gets complicated but in theory you could do something like an API of an ORM to do most things. With using just operators you quickly run into the fact that you have to overload (abuse) operators or write a new language with different operator semantics:
orders * customers | (customers.id == orders.customer_id | orders.amount > Decimal(‘10.00’)
Where * means cross product/outer join and | means filter. Once you add an ordering operator, a group by, etc. you basically get SQL with extra steps.But it would be nice to have it built in so talking to a database would be a bit more native.