ease of use. in ruby If I want to use kafka I can use karafka. or redis streams via the redis library. likewise if kafka is too complex to run there's countless alternatives which work as well - hell even 0mq with client libraries.
now with the postgres version I have to write my own stuff which I might not where it's gonna lead me.
postgres is scalable, no one doubts that. but what people forget to mention is the ecosystem around certain tools.