I completely agree. ChatGPT put all kinds of nonsense into its memory. “Cruffle is trying to make bath bombs with baking soda and citric acid” or “Cruffle is deciding between a red colored bedsheet or a green colored bedsheet”. Like great both of those are “time bound” and have no relevance after I made the bath bomb or picked a white bedsheet…
All these LLM manufacturers lack ways to edit these memories either. It’s like they want you to treat their shit as “the truth” and you have to “convince” the model to update it rather than directly edit it yourself. I feel the same way about Claude’s implementation of artifacts too… they are read only and the only way to change them is via prompting (I forget if ChatGPT lets you edit its canvas artifacts). In fact the inability to “hand edit” LLM artifacts is pervasive… Claude code doesn’t let you directly edit its plans, nor does it let you edit the diffs. Cursor does! You can edit all of the artifacts it generates just fine, putting me in the drivers seat instead of being a passive observer. Claude code doesn’t even let you edit previous prompts, which is incredibly annoying because like you, editing your prompt is key to getting optimal output.
Anyway, enough rambling. I’ll conclude with a “yes this!!”. Because yeah, I find these memory features pretty worthless. They never give you much control over when the system uses them and little control over what gets stored. And honestly, if they did expose ways to manage the memory and edit it and stuff… the amount of micromanagement required would make it not worth it.