Just in the past two weeks:
I wrote about how good skills are... but pointed out the flaws in MCP at the same time. Anthropic have invested way more in MCP.
I called out Claude Haiku 4.5 as being more expensive than previous Haiku models when the thing I was hoping for was something that was price competitive with GPT-5 Mini/Nano and Gemini Flash Lite.
NVIDIA sent me a review unit of their Spark and I wrote about how hard it was to get CUDA and Arm working together.
OpenAI invited me to DevDay and I published a GPT-5 Pro pelican that took 6 minutes and cost $1.10 cents, plus made fun of their terrible track record for announcing and then failing to ship revenue sharing on a livestream: https://www.youtube.com/live/M6paPiur4yQ?si=XXKkIKY2J71QCJKW...
The reason I get invited to stuff is that I'm a trusted independent voice in the space. The labs appear smart enough not to expect me to throw away my credibility for a free event ticket or early preview access to their launches.
More importantly: I don't value early access or event invitations very highly. If a lab stopped inviting me to stuff it really wouldn't affect me much at all. Might even help give me some space to focus on other things!