My current method for trying to break through this misconception is informing people that nobody knows how AI works. Literally. Nobody knows. (Note that knowing how to make something is not the same as knowing how it works. Take humans as an obvious example.)
Nobody knows (full scope and on every level) how human brains work. Still bosses rely on their employees' brains all the time.
AI sits at a weird place where it can't be analyzed as software, and it can't be managed as a person.
My current mental model is that AGI can only be achieved when a machine experiences pleasure, pain, and "bodily functions". Otherwise there's no way to manage it.