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I disagree. If we are talking about distributed systems in which we have N different databases, then distributed transactions are left as an exercise to the reader (that’s why we have things like Sagas). Within a single machine, yeah, relational dbs still work like a charm.
I was part of a project that successfully deployed them into production using Oracle, sometimes those license costs are actually worth it.
But for anyone tempted by Oracle, do remember that the upfront, agreed licence costs are only a fraction of the true price:
You’ll need someone who actually knows Oracle - either already in place or willing to invest a serious amount of time learning it. Without that, you’re almost certainly better off choosing a simpler database that people are comfortable with.
There’s always a non-zero risk of an Oracle rep trying to “upsell” you. And by upsell, I mean threatening legal action unless you cough up for additional bits a new salesperson has suddenly decided you’re using. (A company I worked with sold Oracle licences and had a long, happy relationship with them - until one day they went after us over some development databases. Someone higher up at Oracle smoothed it over, but the whole experience was unnerving enough.)
Incidental and accidental complexity: I’ve worked with Windows from 3.1 through to Server 2008, with Linux from early Red Hat in 2001 through to the latest production distros, plus a fair share of weird and wonderful applications, everything from 1980s/90s radar acquisition running on 2010 operating systems through a wide range of in house, commercial and open source software and up to modern microservices — and none of it comes close to Oracle’s level of pain.
Edit: Installating Delphi 6 with 14 packages came close, I used 3 days when I had to find every package scattered on disks in shelves and drawers and across ancient web paces + posted as abandonware on source forge but I guess I could learn to do that in a day if I had to do it twice a month. Oracle consistently took me 3 days - if I did everything correct on first try and didn't have to start from scratch.