> Those industries (or existing homeowners, for housing) are growing obscenely fat and rich.
The problem is, sure, your house that your parents built for 100k in the 80 is worth 1 million dollars on paper, just because of urbanization. But that "wealth" is pretty much useless, at least as long as you reside there it can't be realized. So you either have to sell off the existing home and find a new place to live which only makes sense if you move to a drastically lower CoL area, or if you're of old age you may get away with living off the equity by getting a HELOC backed by the home - the downside of that is of course that your children won't have much of an inheritance left.
That's also why taxing real estate on land value is a very, very bad idea - land values rise exponentially or at the very least far faster than wages, which forces rent hikes for renters and forces off old established businesses and ordinary people.