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Why wouldn't it be acceptable to ship? This is how everything works in C++. You always have to mind your references.
This is like writing an article entitled "In Defense of Guns", and then belittling the fact it can kill by saying "You always have to track your bullets".[1] [1] Not me making this up - I started getting into guns and this is what people say.
In a complete tangent I think that "smart guns" that only let you shoot bullseye targets, animals and designated un-persons are not far off.