I'm not going to defend the fact that the C++ devex sucks. There are really a lot of reasons for it, some of which can't sensibly be blamed on the language and some of which absolutely can be. (Most of it probably just comes down to the language and tooling being really old and not having changed in some specific fundamental ways.)
However, it's definitely wrong to say that the typical tools are "non-portable". The UNIX-style C++ toolchains work basically anywhere, including Windows, although I admit some of the tools require MSys/Cygwin. You can definitely use GNU Makefiles with pkg-config using MSys2 and have a fine experience. Needless to say, this also works on Linux, macOS, FreeBSD, Solaris, etc. More modern tooling like CMake and Ninja work perfectly fine on Windows and don't need any special environment like Cygwin or MSys, can use your MSVC installation just fine.
I don't really think applying the mantra of Rust package management and build processes to C++ is a good idea. C++'s toolchain is amenable to many things that Rust and Cargo aren't. Instead, it'd be better to talk about why C++ sucks to use, and then try to figure out what steps could be taken to make it suck less. Like:
- Building C++ software is hard. There's no canonical build system, and many build systems are arcane.
This one really might be a tough nut to crack. The issue is that creating yet another system is bound to just cause xkcd 927. As it is, there are many popular ways to build, including GNU Make, GNU Autotools + Make, Meson, CMake, Visual Studio Solutions, etc.
CMake is the most obvious winner right now. It has achieved defacto standard support. It works on basically any operating system, and IDEs like CLion and Visual Studio 2022 have robust support for CMake projects.
Most importantly, building with CMake couldn't be much simpler. It looks like this:
$ cmake -B .build -S .
...
$ cmake --build .build
...
And you have a build in .build. I think this is acceptable. (A one-step build would be simpler, but this is definitely more flexible, I think it is very passable.)
This does require learning CMake, and CMake lists files are definitely a bit ugly and sometimes confusing. Still, they are pretty practical, and rather easy to get started with, so I think it's a clear win. CMake is the "defacto" way to go here.
- Managing dependencies in C++ is hard. Sometimes you want external dependencies, sometimes you want vendored dependencies.
This problem's even worse. CMake helps a little here, because it has really robust mechanisms for finding external dependencies. However, while robust, the mechanism is definitely a bit arcane; it has two modes, the legacy Find scripts mode, and the newer Config mode, and some things like version constraints can have strange and surprising behavior (it differs on a lot of factors!)
But sometimes you don't want to use external dependencies, like on Windows, where it just doesn't make sense. What can do you really do here?
I think the most obvious thing to do is use vcpkg. As the name implies, it's Microsoft's solution to source-level dependencies. Using vcpkg with Visual Studio and CMake is relatively easy, and it can be configured with a couple of JSON files (and there is a simple CLI that you can use to add/remove dependencies, etc.) When you configure your CMake build, your dependencies will be fetched and built appropriately for your targets, and then CMake's find package mechanism can be used just as it is used for external dependencies.
CMake itself is also capable of vendoring projects within itself, and it's absolutely possible to support all three modalities of manual vendoring, vcpkg, and external dependencies. However, for obvious reasons this is generally not advisable. It's really complicated to write CMake scripts that actually work properly in every possible case, and many cases need to be prevented because they won't actually work.
All of that considered, I think the best existing solution here is CMake + vcpkg. When using external dependencies is desired, simply not using vcpkg is sufficient and the external dependencies will be picked up as long as they are installed. This gives an experience much closer to what you'd expect from a modern toolchain, but without limiting you from using external dependencies which is often unavoidable in C++ (especially on Linux.)
- Cross-compiling with C++ is hard.
In my opinion this is mostly not solved by the "defacto" toolchains. :)
It absolutely is possible to solve this. Clang is already better off than most of the other C++ toolchains in that it can handle cross-compiling with selecting cross-compile targets at runtime rather than build time. This avoids the issue in GCC where you need a toolchain built for each target triplet you wish to target, but you still run into the issue of needing libc/etc. for each target.
Both CMake and vcpkg technically do support cross-compilation to some extent, but I think it rarely works without some hacking around in practice, in contrast to something like Go.
If cross-compiling is a priority, the Zig toolchain offers a solution for C/C++ projects that includes both effortless cross-compiling as well as an easy to use build command. It is probably the closest to solving every (toolchain) problem C++ has, at least in theory. However, I think it doesn't really offer much for C/C++ dependencies yet. There were plans to integrate vcpkg for this I think, but I don't know where they went.
If Zig integrates vcpkg deeply, I think it would become the obvious choice for modern C++ projects.
I get that by not having a "standard" solution, C++ remains somewhat of a nightmare for people to get started in, and I've generally been doing very little C++ lately because of this. However I've found that there is actually a reasonable happy path in modern C++ development, and I'd definitely recommend beginners to go down that path if they want to use C++.