They are not rejecting Safe C++; they are rejecting memory safety. Majority of them believes that memory safety is just hype, and minority of them knows it's a problem, but doesn't want to restrict themselves about coding. If code runs, it is fine. If it does not, coder running is fine too.
I work on a Swift/iOS app that wraps a C++ library 90+% of our crashes are from hard-to-diagnose cpp crashes. Our engineers are smart and hardworking but they throw their hands up at this. Please tell me my options aren’t limited to “please be better at programming”…?
For containing legacy C++ codebases https://fil-c.org/ looks promising as well, and could fit the bill better if the data was user supplied. It's been discussed on HN many times, most recently here https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=45133938 .. but currently doesn't support iOS.