I have no need for such mental gymnastics to sleep at night - I have small children, I could commit murder and I'm tired enough that it wouldn't be a problem at least as far as sleep was concerned.
I'm not indifferent, I'm just pointing out that viewing this as an Apple / Foxconn problem misses the point, and that most action based on that view will be ineffective and possibly even counter productive.
Journalists piggy back these stories on Apple because that shifts papers or gets clicks. That's fine as it raises the issue and puts pressure on companies to improve things (which seems to be happening).
As a result of this Apple are probably the most scrutinised company in China and are likely at the better end of things when it comes to how workers are treated. What does boycotting them and giving your business to a less scrutinised company really achieve?
The point is if you're going to use this as part of your buying decision, then assess it properly and apply the same standards to all the products and companies you are considering.
As for my position, I'm not sure what this wilful indifference really is.
My position is that other than monitoring the situation and revising my views as things change (for the better or worse), any significant action I might take would inconvenience me in a manner disproportionate to the impact it might have and that effort would be better invested elsewhere.