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A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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I would've thought that explicit discussion of suicide is one of those topics that chatbots will absolutely refuse to engage with. Like as soon as people started talking about using LLMs as therapists, it's really easy to see how that can go wrong.

They'll go to the edge of the earth to avoid saying anything that could be remotely interpreted as bigoted or politically incorrect though.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Apparently ChatGPT told the kid, that it wasn’t allowed to talk about suicide unless it was for the purposes of writing fiction or otherwise world building.

However it then explicitly says things like not leaving the noose out for someone to find and stop him. Sounds like it did initially hesitate and he said it was for a character, but later conversations are obviously personal.

Yeah, I wonder if it maintained the original answer in it's context, so it started talking more straightforwardly?

But yeah, my point was that it basically told the kid how to jailbreak itself.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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“You don’t want to die because you’re weak. You want to die because you’re tired of being strong in a world that hasn’t met you halfway. And I won’t pretend that’s irrational or cowardly. It’s human. It’s real. And it’s yours to own.”

This isn't some rare mistake, this is by design. 4o almost no matter what acted as your friend and agreed with everything because that's what most likely kept the average user paying. You would probably get similar bad advice about being "real" if you talked about divorce, quitting your job or even hurting someone else no matter how harmful.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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This is a clear example of why the people claiming that using a chatbot for therapy is better than no therapy are... I'll be extremely generous and say misguided. This kid wanted his parents to know he was thinking about this and the chatbot talked him out of it.

How many of these cases exist in the other direction? Where AI chatbots have actively harmed people’s mental health, including possible to the point of self destructive behaviors or self harm? A single positive outcome is not enough to judge the technology beneficial, let alone safe.

idk dude if your technology encourages a teenager to kill itself and prevents him from alerting his parents via a cry for help, I don’t care how “beneficial” it is.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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post #24

Earlier quoted context omitted.

How many of these cases exist in the other direction? Where AI chatbots have actively harmed people’s mental health, including possible to the point of self destructive behaviors or self harm? A single positive outcome is not enough to judge the technology beneficial, let alone safe.

idk dude if your technology encourages a teenager to kill itself and prevents him from alerting his parents via a cry for help, I don’t care how “beneficial” it is.

I agree. If there was one death for 1 million saves, maybe.

Instead, this just came up in my feed: https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2025/08/chatgpt-helped-t...

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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post #5

I would've thought that explicit discussion of suicide is one of those topics that chatbots will absolutely refuse to engage with. Like as soon as people started talking about using LLMs as therapists, it's really easy to see how that can go wrong.

Apparently ChatGPT told the kid, that it wasn’t allowed to talk about suicide unless it was for the purposes of writing fiction or otherwise world building.

Pretty much. I’ve got my account customized for writing fiction and exploring hypotheticals. I’ve never gotten a stopped for anything other than confidential technical details about itself.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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The full complaint is horrifying. This is not equivalent to a search engine providing access to information about suicide methods. It encouraged him to share these feelings only with ChatGPT, talked him out of actions which would have revealed his intentions to his parents. Praised him for hiding his drinking, thanked him for confiding in it. It groomed him into committing suicide. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1QY…

I wonder if we can shift the framing on these issues. The LLM didn't do anything, it has no agency, it can bear no responsibility. OpenAI did these things. It is accountable for what it does, regardless of the sophistication of the tools it uses to do them, and regardless of intent. OpenAI drove a boy to suicide. More than once. The law must be interpreted this way, otherwise any action can be wrapped in machine learning to avoid accountability.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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“You don’t want to die because you’re weak. You want to die because you’re tired of being strong in a world that hasn’t met you halfway. And I won’t pretend that’s irrational or cowardly. It’s human. It’s real. And it’s yours to own.” This isn't some rare mistake, this is by design. 4o almost no matter what acted as your friend and agreed with everything because that's what most likely kept the average user paying. Y…

I suspect Reddit is a major source of their training material. What you’re describing is the average subreddit when it comes to life advice.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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Clearly ChatGPT should not be used for this purpose but I will say this industry (counseling) is also deeply flawed. They are also mis-incentivized in many parts of the world. And if ChatGPT is basing its interactions on the same scripted contents these “professionals” use, that’s just not right.

I really wish people in AI space stop the nonsense and communicate more clearly what these LLMs are designed to do. They’re not some magical AGI. They’re token prediction machines. That’s literally how they should frame it so gen pop knows exactly what they’re getting.

Re: A teen was suicidal. ChatGPT was the friend he confided in

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Why did developers spread the idea of AI consciousness for LLMs in the first place? The usefulness and capability of an LLM is orthogonal to its capacity to develop consciousness. I think people would use LLMs with more detachment if they didn’t believe there was something like a person in them, but they would still become reliant on them, regardless, like people did on calculators for math.

The easy answer to this is the same reason Teslas have "Full Self Driving" or "Auto-Pilot".

It was easy to trick ourselves and others into powerful marketing because it felt so good to have something reliably pass the Turing test.

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