This perspective that many people take on memory-safety of Rust seems really
"interesting".
Unfortunately for all fanatics, language really doesn't matter that much.
I have been using KDE for years now and it works perfectly good for me. It has no issues/crashes, it has many features in terms of desktop environment and also many programs that come with it like music player, video player, text editor, terminal etc. and they all work perfectly well for me. Almost all of this is written in C++. No need to mention the classic linux/chromium etc. etc which are all written in c++/c.
I use Ghostty which is written in zig, it is amazingly polished and works super well as well.
I have built and used a lot of software written in Rust as well and they worked really well too.
At some point you have to admit, what matters is the people writing software, the amount of effort that goes into it etc. it is not the langauge.
As far as memory-safety goes, it really isn't close to being the most important thing unless you are writing security critical stuff. Even then just using Rust isn't as good as you might think, I uncountered a decent amount of segfaults, random crashes etc. using very popular Rust libraries as well. In the end just need to put in the effort.
I'm not saying language doesn't matter but it isn't even close to being the most important thing.